Cali can be found in the market district after becoming a Journeyman in the Mage's Guild. Check the commotion and intervene as a guild member
Take her away by paying 50 gold or say you will be the one to punish her (free) then talk to her,
Offer her help getting home.
She will runaway if you offer her to stay in your mansion.
Return to the mansion and speak to her.
Go to the red lantern district, visit the local bar, and pay 500 gold for the information.
Leave town and go to Shaliq village. Upon entering you will find that a girl called Tia has gone missing and her grandfather is looking for her.
Go back to the forest and fight a group of bandits in the forest. They will tell you about a camp in the forest that you will also have to clear out (if you have the spell Dominate it makes the upcoming fight a lot easier). you will find Tia who you can return to the village or kidnap (if you have entrance you can seduce her) either way return to the village for a reward and the next part of the quest.
You can claim 300 gold from Tia's granpa, or
Refusing a reward will get you 2 free Communal Room upgrade and 4 upgrade points instead.
Return to Cali and talk to her. She will ask to come with you, you can decline her offer but will probably be in for another big fight. If you decide to take her, add her to your battle group and leave Wimborn. Visit the slavers camp, and decline to sell Cali. Defeat the lone bandit and he will tell you that he found Cali near the Eerie Grove so head there next and find Cali's village. If you decline her offer, leave Wimborn, and head to slaver camp. Pay 100 gold for a pass, you will have 2 option, pretend you will buy a slave (no battle) or attack. He will tell you where the bandit is (you need to bring cali).
Go to Eerie Woods and comfort her for additional obedience and loyalty. You can ask if Cali can continue working with you and you will have successfully recruited her.
If you ask her to stay, you get 10 upgrade points and loyalty points.
If you ask her to become your plaything, you will get a whooping 1000 affection!
if you offer her to become your slave, you get 10 upgrade point and obedience points.
Leaving her alone mean you release her and get 10 upgrade point.